I live in Canada and she in U.K. we last saw each other two years ago and she didn’t know who I was. She looked at me with disdain most of the time and would not allow me to as much as make her tea. The day before she and her husband left for home she literally verbally attacked me and had such hatred in her eyes and I was so shaken I couldn’t be near her (this was NOT my sister). My husband drove her and her husband to the airport. They called me from the airport and when she spoke to me she was “my sister” again. I have condensed this incident and I am looking for advice. We are now going to visit her and her husband and we always stay at their house. By the way I do make regular phone calls, some I sense she doesn’t know me but others she is fine. Should we find other accommodations? I don’t want to offend anyone but I want to do what’s best for my sister. Her husband thinks she’ll be fine as long as she is kept to a routine. Any advice appreciated.