I have booked airline tickets back home for her and I but she refuses to go . She is an unable do anything for herself anymore for instance she cannot prepare meals even the simplest ones (bowl of cereal, simple sandwich) and there is no one down here to help her, she is alone . My question is with a Dr note can she be lightly sedated and forced to return to me to my home until I can figure out other arrangements . I have power of attorney. The papers are filed with her doctor's office as well. I have been caring for her for the last three years and we have gone North for the summers in the past but now she no longer wants to make the trip and I have a life and home in the North that I must get back to .