Mom is blind and very crippled with osteoporosis, yet she wants her favorite weed hoe, she wants a little vase that meant so much to her, she wants a hair brush she left behind. She seems alert and bright, but she tells me that she cries all day sometimes because she wants something that is gone. I have explained that the items were not saved. There are other things she obsesses about also. I don't know how to help her regain her happiness! I am unhappy myself because I can't help her.