My husband and I have been caring for my mother for 1 1/2 years in my home. Everytime she comes back from my sister's house, her confusion gets worse, and her anxiety is high. She's stayed at my sister's for a week at a time, 3 weeks total in the entire year and a half. Now she wants mom every two weeks. I am feeling this is a bad idea. I know my mom loves my sister, and her family. Problem is that she has a 4 year old, 5 year old, 13 year old, and an 18 year old with husband gone to work truck driving. He's home 3 days a week. My kids are gone, and I can give my undivided attention to her. I don't know what to say, beyond that I have a bad feeling about it. Any advice? I believe she suffered from transfer trauma in the past with the other times she stayed with her. Would this make it worse?