I am trying to go through Elder Services with interviews and examinations. My hope is that they will provide a recommendation to my Mom's PCP that she should not live by herself and would benefit from assisted living. I have found a nice facility, but my Mom insists that everything is OK and won't even consider it.
My Mom is 86 years old and in relatively good physical health. But she does not eat well (in spite of food in the refrigerator). She is really existing rather than living, and avoids social contact.