And I think they feel guilty, as do I. We are all three Power of Attorney over her health and property. Mom is quite amazing for 101. Her doctor has given us a note saying she isn't capable of making decisions regarding her health. My thoughts are why tell her when she can never go home. I think if she knew, she would get very depressed and it would crush her spirit. It's her last bit of independence to think her house is still there. She doesn't understand that we can't afford to keep it. It's a tough decision. I appreciate the responses. Thank you to everyone.