My sister has accused me and has made threats of court action but still hasn't after two years. She has prevented the proceeds being split based purely on her allegations. I have testimonials that I spent the money on my mother and had reasonable reimbursements for my out of pocket expenses but she is not accepting of these reasons. She is claiming all money withdrawn was for 'my benefit' which is not true and I don't seem to be able to do anything to defend myself against her allegations. I sent all of my testimonials and evidence to the OPG but unfortunately my mother died (July 2016) before they had completed their investigation. My mother lived with me from December 2014 until March 2016 and up until her stroke in July 2015 she was compos mentis and still had complete control over her own finances etc but as the POA was registered from January 2015 my sister is insisting I pay back money from then. This has gone on for two years now and I have stated I am prepared to defend myself in court if need be but she simply repeats her allegations and threats. I have answered all her questions but she doesn't accept my answers. The Estate solicitor is not doing anything and has not replied to my requests for information on how much the estate is worth (100 of my mum's shares have been sold but I've no idea how much for) and a breakdown of his costs thus far. He has not replied. I am being treated like a criminal but I have not done anything wrong. It is making me ill. I'm so depressed over it all and don't know what to do. My solicitor doesn't seem to be doing much either.