I am a live in caregiver, I get paid 400.00 per week. I never get a day off or even just a few hours to go out, oh I do go to the grocery store. It just gets to me sometimes. I feel like I sometimes don’t know who I am and then when her family comes over I am expected to cater to them. Any suggestions on how I could approach this situation?
Please look into a caregiver contract with your clients.
Best wishes to you.
Is this family you're caring for? Family will abuse a good natured person nigh unto death.
But..
is does not make it OK for ANYONE, family or no, to abuse you in this fashion. You MUST get a lawyer on board to draw up a contract that is abided by. You look pretty young in your picture and I hate to think of you wasting 15+ years in servitude and not even having the possibility of SS to look forward to.
If they balk at paying you what you're worth, you walk.
Even if this were a straight 40 hr workweek--at $10 an hour, you are not making much. I was paid that 15 years ago when I began CG for a job. No health insurance, I imagine, right? And you probably sleep with one ear open every night because your job never ends. You don't get weekends off? OR even ONE day a week?
Honey, that is called being a full time MOM and I don't think these are your kids!
Joking aside--if you don't advocate for yourself, nobody else will.
Good Luck!!
Seems you have been having problems for a year with this couple. You need to contact your Labor Board and find out the law in ur State concerning live in Caregivers. You are entitled to time off. You are entitled to room and board free. Sounds to me like they are paying $10 an hour for 40 hrs. If so, thats what u work, anything over that is time and half. You should have a contract. They should be deducting taxes and SS (matching it) and making sure IRS and SS gets the amts. No one should be expected to work 24/7.
That is about $2.38 cents pre hour.
And if they are not paying into Social Security for you and abiding by the rules (I seriously doubt they are) it will harm you in the long run when you are missing quarters for Social Security.
I STRONGLY suggest that you contact the Labor Board in your State.
Do be prepared to leave your job. (not much of a loss if you ask me)
You can do far better even if you worked for an agency.
Please do not sell yourself short on this. You are worth FAR more than what you are being paid.
And typically a "live in" will work 3 to 5 days and will get at least 8 hours per day of "off" time.