Hello, I've been taking care of my mother (53, FTLD) for the last three years. I'm 26. Since the beginning of the year she's progressively gotten worse. The other night she came and asked me what year I was born, I also can't keep the burners on the stove, and have to lock the oven because she nearly burned the house down one night when she was supposed to be in bed and I was asleep. We've always had a strained relationship, and I've burned out a lot this year. I need to get her into a place, but I have no idea where to look or how to start. She has Medicaid/Atena, and she recieves SSDI every month, but it's barely a grand. I have around 13k saved up, but most of the places I've been finding are 3-5k a month, so 13k won't go far. She only has her car as an asset, and it's not worth more than a grand. Neither she or I have a house. Do I need to get a loan? I don't get how people do private pay. Any guidance would be great. We live in Colorado, any location here would be fine. I don't mind a drive.