I have been caring for my 72 year old mom since my dad passed away 2 and a half years ago. At first I knew it would be diffcult for her they had been married over 40 years....
she has alot against her health wise.
but she can be so hard headed!!!! She smokes so much its ridiculous I've tried everything to slow her smoking to no avail. She doesnt take care of herself like she used to, I have to make her bathe then she fusses about. She wants everyone to do everything for her. She is giving up she often talks about going meet my dad she says she will be better off.
I have no help from family at all. I find myself crying and crying because I dont know how to help her. Its killing me watching her slowly go right before my eyes.