I moved out at 15. Met my husband (who is the same age) had our kids at 20 been on my own 30 years. Now I have grandchildren. I never got along with my parents. Mom and dad were 11 years a part. Mom died at 64 Dad was left alone. 6 months after her death he asked to come live with me. I said yes of course knowing he has cancer and kidney disease. It’s been 2 years and I can’t do it anymore. I tried talking with about moving to an adult senior building which has 24 hour care but he still can do things on his own. He won’t go he just says let me die.
I won’t be here much longer. I don’t know what to do. Kids won’t come over cause of him so I don’t see much of my grandchildren. My husband tries to hide his anger because we can’t be close I just need information on how to talk him into moving.