We had a close knit group of 5 or 6 couples. We did everything together, trips, cruises, every dance we sat together, you get the picture. My husband got sick and landing in hospital with sepsis, I wrote about it here. Since he got home, one person brought food over. No cards, no phone calls. Of course, he didn't get too upset because of his condition. I said nothing. Then one day a very good friend of mine said."Sometimes curcumstances change and when that happens people should go to another group with the same interests." I assume she feels they do not want us around anymore. I am distraught because my husband is sick, now friends -and I use that term loosely are uncomfortable with us. He can still go to dances and dinners, but I think they want me to drop out. What would you do? I like my community here but so disappointed with who I chose as "friends."