She is driving me crazy. Questions everything I do. Does not allow me to shower before her. Will wait outside the bathroom door 'till I'm done. I am not allowed to go anyhere without her. She forgets everything, I mean everything. She refuses to go to the doctor (neurologist) has canceled every appointment made. I am not married to her so she does not want me to go to the Dr. with her. Even though she refuse to go.
I would like her gone from my house.
Please come back and tell us how things work out.
Sadly your sig other will not be able to live on her own. Does she have any immediate relatives that can help you? Can she budget to live in Assisted Living/Memory Care? If not, check to see if she could qualify for Medicaid [which is different from Medicare] because if her memory is difficult, Medicaid could check to see if she would be qualified to live in a nursing home.
I can understand your frustration, but what if the roles were reversed? Just food for thought. You probably would want her or someone there to help care for you.
Everyday and every night she gets worse. My friends stay away from me.
Thanks for your response I don't feel alone.