I am 75 years old, I have a serious heart condition. I take care of my 83 years old husband. A neurologist diagnosed him with memory loss, and he has refused any test. He does not seem to fit the profile for Alzheimer's , but he does not to be concerned with consequences, cannot follow a movie or TV plot, and makes poor decisions. However, superficially, he may seem fine. Since I'm trying to decide if we go to a elderly living facility, I asked my doctor about him. She mentioned this may be caused by mini strokes, his diabetes, etc. (I have no access to his own doctor). Can anyone tell me what I am dealing with? Is there a name I can look up on the Internet? I feel so sorry for him ... And I am exhausted! I'm trying to make a decision to secure him a place where he will get good care in case I die soon. He could not manage to live at our home alone. Can anyone help me? I am grateful!