Mother in law has dementia declining rapidly. I care for her during the week, 4 days. Neither one of my in laws work. They expect me to do everything. They are so unworthy to take care of her. Only do what they feel fit. Can't sit back and watch this happen. My brother in law has POA. He keeps up on all financial parts but does not know to truly care for her. That's why I Am there. I live 30 miles away no other family offers help. My sister in law is schizophrenic/affective. She has been removed a few times from the house because of her behavior. But has been allowed to return. She is 48 years old.
She does not understand mom's diagnosis. She is very mean sometimes with her. She has been spoiled all her life, now mom's health is failing and she is acting very selfish.
She butts heads with me alot. When I try to explain that mom does not know what she is doing sometimes. She flips out. Brother in law has POA over her to wondering house is so quiet when she is not there. Mom is more settled. Wish we could have her placed in a facility till we can have mom placed in nursing home. Probably take an ER visit to do that. I'm at my wits end. With this. I'm really concerned about her safety when I'm not there. (Thank you for letting me vent)