I've read many comments here regarding getting a loved one transported to a facility. I cannot even picture what that will look like for my 93 year old mom - strong personality, confined to wheelchair, mid-stage dementia.
I am the only relative/influencer who will oversee this process.
Taking her to lunch as a distractor while getting her moved in is not an option.
She has good days and bad days. Not sure what to do if moving day turns out to be a "bad" day.
Honestly, I picture a scenario where she will be tied to the roof of the car and transported to the front door of the facility. (Just joking!!!) But you get the idea. I really cannot envision how I am supposed to pull this off.