I just wonder where I can locate support locally in Massachusetts for myself.
My only living parent is living in Florida with my sister and her new husband. They control everything in the house and play mind games with my mother like hiding her ipad from her and then telling her lies that they do not know its whereabouts. This stresses her out and is downright abusive. Mom enables her behaviour because she fears sisters wrath which is in essence throwing tantrums and threats of abandoning my mother. My sister is in her 40s drinks every day and is for the most part anti-social i.e. no friends period. She tried to control me however when I called her out it there was no room for logical diplomacy from her.
I live in MA by choice because of personal reasons I dont want to live in FL. I chose MA because I'm a few hours flight from FL.
That set aside I need to find a group of people I can perhaps gain some insight on how to deal with the matter at hand and get some sort of help with my ongoing depression. My moms a few years short of her 80th birthday and really not happy nor seems to be able to fight my siblings behavior(Ive spoken about seeking legal counsel its gone nowhere). And I found out recently mom gave the POA(power of attourney) to my sister which makes it more complicated.
You see I wouldnt mind this but its gotten to the point I cannot visit the house because my sisters threat to have me arrested (I do not have a criminal record mind you). Her husband is a parasite who wanted in on the house title when mom purchased it years ago, he does not pay rent!
Sorry for the long post. I just need to find some guidance as I just turned 50 and its really been psychologically taxing on my mental state knowing mom is become a victim of her own doing and I can do nothing.