I thought I had gotten through the anger phase of dealing with my Mom's memory issues, and had moved on to acceptance. It seems that I am angry and frustrated again as her memory gets worse. My brother is no help and my sister has the outgoing empathy of a stone, even after I've repeatedly asked her to call me back more, even if just to troubleshoot or ask how I'm doing. I moved back in w my mom a few years ago bc of boyfriend problems, but also bc she was lonely. My mom stopped doing for herself, and stopped going out to the bus and taking herself places and everything else since I came here. I feel like my sister probably assumes that my mother is not doing so well because she stopped doing all of those things, because I was here to drive her etc. Either way, my sister has never been that open to being emotionally supportive. I, on the other hand, am very sensitive, and I am taking every single thing that my mom says nastily as a problem. Since most of what she says is mostly the way she's always talked to me, I have a hard time separating these memory problem-related things from what she would normally say anyway. I am scared and I feel alone as she gets worse. I want to be nice and caring and soothing to her and I'm not. I am defensive about every little thing she says.