Hi everyone, still 6 years now into taking care of mother without family support. They don't believe she has "dementia" and have taken a back seat even with demonstrating a level of concern about her. We all live in different cities with health issues and family issues. How should I approach this conversation without being accusatory, or should I just listen to their ideas about how the care for Mom can be more shared in spite of Covid's presence. I had to stop in-home care and just use caregivers for running errands outside the home. This puts more pressure on me to do all household cleaning, financial
maintenance and attending to Mom who is very stubborn, selfish, and inconsiderate towards my care and safety instructions, and this wears down my will to continue on. Help, I need a respite if I'm going to continue this alone.