...or is it "handing it out" ?
DH and I have been dishing out the $$$ for several years now for my father whose now in AL.
We have supplied him with a cell phone and paid for the minutes for years, payed outstanding bills for him and the ones that do keep coming etc etc etc.
He's on Medicare and Medicaid...AL gets his whole Social Security check of $645 plus he has not gotten the $90 allowed him since he has lived there since Sept...that's a whole other problem we're trying to figure out.
Anything the man needs he gets from us. Now we are to come up with $100,000 that the state wants for his property if we desire to keep the land in the family and in our possession.
I don't really know what I'm asking here, I just needed to whine I guess