Who tells you when its time to move a loved one from Assisted Living to Memory care? Is it solely based on whether they wander? My Mom refuses to eat the food provided for her in the dining hall of the assisted living facility. She has a microwave in her little apartment within the assisted living facility. So we help her get groceries. She has ALWAYS had an eating disorder. But she is growing more confused and we can't be sure that she is eating at all now! She is so stubborn and absolutely refuses to eat in the dining hall. Is it time to move her to memory care?