I am the 24/7 live in caregiver for mother. My nephew who is mentally challenged had always been picked up and driven home by me. Now mom can't walk and lost control of bowel and bladder, and requires minute to minute care. In one day he called 6 times and left repeated voice mails. His father passed when he was 13 and his mother has remarried and the new husband kicked him out of the house, so now he is in subsidized housing. I am too busy taking care of mom to leave her for a minute and go pick him up so he can sit here, and then leave and take him home. He has taken it upon himself to call my sibling 3000 miles away and say that I am not picking up the phone and I am preventing him from seeing his grandmother. NOW, how would you tell this person it is his responsibility to find a way here and a way home? OH, he has one sibling which he doesn't speak to because he was asked to co-sign for a car loan and the car was repossessed and the finance came after him.