My mom comes home from the hospital today. She doesn't qualify for a SNF yet. Since caring for her I've had cancer and 2 strokes. I am now disabled. People look at me and think I'm ok. I am far from ok. She has dementia and doesn't mind at all depending on me for everything. I'm an only child and none of her relatives will help with her care. I'm constantly depressed. I just got married in March and she tries to create discord between me and my husband. I can't do this anymore. The ALF wants her SS check and pension and I really don't care I just want to live the rest of my days without having to take care of anyone....but me. Am I wrong?