I have left my own home, moved into my dad's house. When he asked me he was more lucid. Next week he has an annual physical and I think the dr will 'notice' his mental decline. He has not signed any POA. My sister does all his financial things for him, but it is all in his name only. When asked if he has a "living will or power of attorney" he says yes. I am afraid. what if he were to fall, have a stroke? Despite my education and work experience, I feel inadequate in this role of housemate/caregiver. I have been reading here and think I have made a poor decision to move myself and my husband. Dad orders my husband to do things (open close blinds and air vents, move things from here to there...) and he will do them, but is gettting fed up. People say how wonderful I am for doing this and I feel like I am not wonderful, these are precious times and all that but it is so much hooey. I am afraid because I live here now so what if something does happen? What if he is incapacitated without any medical advanced directives? Since the the house is to be sold to settle his estate (he does have a WILL) how do I prepare to esssential be evicted the week I bury my dad?