I have tried to tell him he would be closer to me, he would have his meals, his laundry done, ability to get to malls, 700sq foot end unit. He prefers to live in his condo til he dies, thinks he will get better. He has been diagnosed with mild/moderate (alcoholic) dementia, lost his license, and lost his wife in January this year. He won’t take any outside or in home help, relies on me to do finances, bring food, and lives eating cold food or microwaved food. With the Dementia he has no insight, is focused on one thing - getting his license back. He does not believe the diagnosis, saying the doctors are all in on it. Every time he is sick he plans the meds and goes off them. He gets difficult if you try to explain things. He says he has everything he needs right in his condo and can take care of himself. He’s been given a walker but rarely uses it. Don’t know what to do...it will get worse over time I know. He won’t go look or have lunch. I even asked him to bring his friend who is interested in retirement living now, but is not close to him. He has an answer for everything, but his answers leave him stuck where he is...and he is far from happy. It’s so hard on my brother and I.