I now need to move my mother quickly from her current assisted living because of medication mismanagement and no hot water. I just learned that this AL has a recent atrocious history of violations. I was recently off work for a total hip replacement and am still recovering. Being self employed, I can’t miss any more work because I had no income this past month because I was off for surgery and recovery. I can go to work, but I am just now regaining strength. My brothers do not help. I found an excellent AL close by that I can move her to right away. The problem is that they only have a smaller apartment available. Mom wants me to take her to see it, but I can’t physically move her around on snow and ice right now because of my physical limitations. I also can not take any more time to argue with her about the size of the apartment. Her health is the critical thing now, not the size of her apartment. I also can’t take off work any more during the week since I was off for my own health reasons. I need to move her quickly. Her doctor agrees. What resources are there to help us through this time? I am not even able to sleep now because I am so worried as to how I am going to handle this all by myself. I can’t do it by myself during this worst possible time.