When we moved mom to the AL we made sure she had all her own bedroom furniture, and set it up quite nice. We put her chairs in the living room, and a lamp and table. Her couch wouldn't fit. I want her to buy a loveseat, and she admits she misses having a couch. She says she can't afford it, but she surely can. My brother has agreed too, and he is the conservator. She complains about only having chairs, but doesn't want any more furniture brought in because she feels it means she is staying there. She has other nice things we could take there too, like pictures for the wall, but she refuses them. There's room as well, it's not crowded. I have offered often to take her shopping to pick a loveseat out herself, but she won't. I know I am trying to make it nice and comfortable. But she is trying to say "I don't want to be here". Should I just back off?