We have lived together for 2 years and have plans to get married after I finish college, he was recently in an accident at work where he fell off a roof on his head and has a breathing tube in but is coherent and can shake his head, his mother who lives 2 hours away came and has all the power as next of kin and is going against his wishes and put a block on visitation or information to anyone except her out of jealousy that her son would rather have me there. She did not tell him she put the block on so he doesn’t know to remove it when the tube is out, although through head movements and spelling out words he specifically requested I be beside him at all times as well as his best friend, but since he can’t talk he has no say. How do I communicate with him that his mother, in a fit of jealousy, has put a block on everyone and me and his friends aren’t just abandoning him, and how do I get a power of attorney when he can’t use his hands? His mother already asked me about his finances to spend his money and is going against his wishes, I need a solution ASAP before she does more harm. I live in PA if that helps at all.