About six months ago my grandmothers health began to get worse. She was living with my uncle and when she got sick instead of keeping her in the hospital he put her in a home. She was miserable there and called my father to come and get her. My dad lives in Southern California. He is disabled and is not in the best health himself. But that's his mother so I went with him to Northern California to get my grandma. This was only after my grandma and my dad both spoke to his brother and he agreed it would be a good idea. Now let me say that my grandma did not need to be in a home. Since she has been living with my parents she has gotten the medical attention she needs and her health has improved greatly. She has since moved to an independent senior living apartment and is doing well but she misses northern california and would like to return. My dad called my uncle and told him that their mom wanted to go back up there and asked if he could look into some senior living apartments. My uncle said yes that he would get back to him within a week and it has been almost two months now. My uncle won't speak to my dad and doesn't return his phone calls. He has for some reason started to tell the rest of the family lies about my dad saying he didn't want to take care of my grandma and that he is done with her. My dad and mom have done everything for my grandma while caring for four daughters two of them under the age of ten. They drive her to doctors appts, go and have dinner with her everyday, help her out financially and it really hurts my dad and stresses him out to hear what his brother is saying. All this stress is not good for my disabled dad's health and he is one of five sons and all his other brothers say they don't want to get involved in family drama or anything. THis is their mother and they don't care they don't call her and when my dad calls them they say they are busy or they don't want to get involved or say they will call him back and never do. He even sent out an email to everyone explaining what has gone on since my grandma moved down here and that she wants to move back to her home up there and it breaks my heart to know my dad checks his email everyday hoping to hear from his brothers and never does. How can I make things easier on my dad and make his four other healthy brothers see that they need to help out with my grandma?