She is stubborn and when I ask her to take a shower she always says that she grew up without ever taking one so she doesn't need one now.
However, she is smelling like urine and is stinking up my whole house.
I have a partner who is sick of her being here and wants me to put her in a home, but I would feel too guilty.
My mother has always been somewhat of a recluse and doeesn't really like people around. She just watches TV all day and sometimes will do crossword puzzles or read magazines. I can't take her anywhere lately, because of the pandemic and her smelling awful. She doesn't listen when I tell her not to touch everything. She doesn't want to do anything I tell her to do, plus she has dementia.
What can I do?