Mom, 87, lives on her own with very limited funds. My father passed some six years ago. I live over 60 miles from her. During the last six years she has taken advantage of friends, church, sisters and her children and grandchildren by asking for cash or services. She is in a bind with credit card companies and is upside down on her mortgage. The bank doesn't want the house back so has re-mortgaged her home and equity loans. She recently called her brother-in-law, my uncle, and he sent her $500.00. Her physical health is fair, she still drives, but her mental health has always been in question -- untreated bipolar since she was a teenager (according to her sisters). Now, she wants to move in with me and my husband. I've told her no, that I couldn't care for her, but would help her find a place she could afford. She said I wasn't compassionate and hung up on me -- our usual conversation ending. At this point, I don't know what to do.