I have recently become totally responsible for my Aunt. My Uncle passed away. They have one son who is mentally ill and now has a restraining order against him on behalf of my Aunt. I have placed her in a wonderful assisted living facility in California close to her home of 42 years. I have tried to get her to come home with me in Montana. Although her memory is gone (like swiss cheese) she doesn't want to leave her son. Do I just move her closer to me or do I try to take care of her from over 1,000 miles away?
I want her to be happy, but she just wants to go home. Her home has been sold and she just doesn't remember. I need some serious advice!