Mom was sundowning and trying to wander in the middle of the night, rarely would bathe or take care of herself or except help and having incontinent issues. Her husband was having health issues after taking care of her for 3 years so we
agreed it was time for memory care. I’m sad how the memory care told me to drop her off for tea and give it time and visit her in a couple weeks. I feel like I abandoned and deceived her. What is going through her mind ?