My dad complains about not being able to go out to his yard so we suggest he go outside to the lovely grounds where he lives now, but he doesn't want to. He complains that he can't drive to go out to eat so we suggest he go downstairs to one of the three onsite restaurants be he doesn't want to. He complains that taking his meds is too complicated but he doesn't want to talk to Dr about med changes. He wants the services of assisted living but doesn't actually want to go into assisted living (one floor below his current apt). Dad does have Parkinson's.