I am exhausted. My family lives in a world of white and black. Every thing is either calm or my mom turns irrational and begins screaming at us telling us to shut up and get out of her life. If we don't talk about her bills, the mortgage payment she hasn't paid in 8 months, or the money she owes, it's all good. When she gets her mail and the bills, it starts again.
My brother, who up until now, has taken turns with me taking care of her. The other day he decided he doesn't want to do that anymore since he doesn't have anyone to take care of her when he and his wife are not there, so now it is my problem. In other words, she has become an inconvenience to him.
Now I am trapped. I had planned on going on vacation in April and in June and I can't. My husband is livid and my 23 year old autistic daughter has a emotional meltdown every day. I am so stressed out that all I can do is cry until I am so emotionally drained all I want to do is to sleep.
It is affecting my job, my graduate school work, my family. I know that I am complaining but I really don't know what else to do.
I am going to see an elder lawyer, but I already have been told to acquire guardianship which will cost me 3000.00 (which I don't have).