His Aide always spoke of her finances to my Dad. He at one time complained about her to me. He told me that she did not like it when I came there to his home. That bothered me about her. I always came and visited or took them to the doctor's visits and did their shopping. Even when they had other Home Health Care aides; we exchanged phone numbers in case of emergency. So when I spoke to her confidentially, about bringing up her personal finances to his attention.She denied doing so, and I told her that he told me about needing money for her kids, a divorce and her car repairs. I never spoke to her about her personal life, and I only knew these things because my Dad told me.So she told my Dad that I assaulted her, then called her employer and said, the same thing. I received a phone call from my Dad, very upset & yelling at me.As he threatened to have her call the police on me if I ever came over to his house. I called her employer and they said, that she complained that I assaulted her and they told her to call the police on me if I bothered her again. So I stayed away and called the Veterans for help. No one seemed to give me any help with the company she worked for or her. Her company came out to investigate, and my Dad covered for her. It was a total lie from her, Why would she come between my Dad & I? I have never assaulted anyone in my 57 yrs.After 3 months,she is still working there. He now has neighbors that he lied to about me. I have been accused of stealing from him, he has called family & friends telling them that I have never helped him, and that I am greedy. He has done things that a normal man his age would question. He has caused my Mom to get hurt and fall. He has always been a narcissist, and controlling. My Mom has Parkinson's; and Alzheimer s.She had gone into a deep depression after he moved them away from family in Ca to Missouri 14 yrs ago. I moved back to take care of them in 2008, after my husband passing away. I have since remarried, my Dad has shown anger toward me when I was engaged and remarried and now I live 28 miles away. I have for the past years come to help.When ever he ask for help; I have always been there and if I didn't do as he has asked he has anger issues. He tries to control me like my Mom. I see the issues, and our family doctor thinks he has Alzheimer's disease. I went to get Power of Attorney, and one of my brothers who lives out of state has told him. Our Dad told us that he does not have Alzheimer s and insists there is nothing wrong. He trust people he does not know. He turned his new neighbors against me. They told me that if I come to his home that they would call the police on me. They even went as far as to tell me that they were calling their attorney to get a restraining order on me.