Parents are new yorkers. I live in Mass. My sister takes care of them financially and would continue. I am the other daughter living in Mass with two sons and husband. My sister would help create a space and pay. my parents have no money. they were affluent but lost it. long story. I am willing to take it on . If one dies the other(prob my mom) would live with us. HOw do you begin conversation.? They would lose social network but we cant afford nursing home or private care. How do I begin cionversation with my husbandf and my mom?