My mother and I thought it might be good to own a home together for protection of each other in the event of death on the part of one of us. Although I have tried many times, my Mom is never loving but only critical and demanding of me. I can seemingly never get things right, and she takes delight in pointing out things like past divorces that were not on my doing to me to beat me down emotionally. In hind sight, I see that many of my marriage problems stemmed from her direction. Father died at 58 and mom has been with me in house in and out at times. She never worked, does not drive, and I am feeling like Cinderella.
What can I do to get Mom out of the house, and what will happen if I do? Will they take my house to pay for her bills? I feel very stuck. She gives me grief daily. She is 91