If not, which would be best for me (daughter) guardian, poa?
My brother convinced my parents to build their "last" home on his property, actually right next door. Now that they are 88 and showing signs of dementia (mom is worse). He hates me and seems determined to take complete control of all decisions medical,financial etc. He is very rich and I am not. His care for them is lacking at best and he seems determined to be the receiver of any inheritance that there is. Leaving me completely out. I know that this is not what my mom wants and possibly not my dad. Supposedly I have been any life insurance money that may be left when they pass,but I don't know for sure. My mom is too far gone with dementia and she is the only one willing to talk about it. I also wonder if I can make brother pay me for half the value of their house.