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Not sure about wine. That would be a question for the facility she is placed in.
Some ALF would allow the dog and the wine but there would be the issue of taking care of the dog. Plus your mom may need memory care vs ALF. It depends on her health and since dementia is progressive, that can change sooner than might be expected.
It is often suggested that she look for a facility that offers a continuum of care. Assisted living, memory care and then skilled nursing with the understanding she would be progressing to Medicaid as she outlives her assets and that a bed would be available.
A certified elder attorney who is well versed in Medicaid law in Illinois would be a first stop to make sure she doesn’t make costly missteps and has her paperwork in order.
Some board and care homes might accommodate her dog as well. They are smaller, sometimes fewer rules.
I am sorry for this difficult time in your moms life. Good luck helping her make these transitions.