Really starting to dislike my father. He's 85 and has early/not quite moderate dementia, fully ambulatory. All he does is SIT, sleeps, eats and reads! Sits in the same clothes until I remind him it's been 3 days. Or when my daughter says Grandpa, you smell. Every Sunday is an argument to get him in the shower. His reasoning is he doesn't work up a sweat so he's not dirty. I feel like he takes advantage because he gets waited on. When his wife was alive, he did his own laundry, made his own coffee. Easy things. But he does NOTHING for himself. He turns a doctor appointment into an embarrassing social event, wasting their valuable time. He is an attention seeker. I hate taking him anywhere. I'm so angry. There are days I can't even speak to him, I'm so disgusted with him. My daughter works full time and has a special needs child, so I try not to ask her for help. But more than anything, I feel guilty because of how I feel about him.