Dad died a year ago. Mom is getting forgetful and my sister is "helping" her with everything. When I try to help she gets resentful and wants to keep mom away from me. I am worried about this. I feel guilty that I would be thinking about the money and am tempted not to do anything but at the same time I know how mom and dad meant for things to be.
My mom had me helping her with cleaning and on the fridge i found papers that included CD paperwork. The CDs were my moms with my sister listed as the 2nd and myself and my brother were not listed.
Are these still "pay of death" to all three of us or has my sister gotten them changed to pay to her only. Can her and mom be on the CD but it still be pay on death to all 3?
Like I said I feel guilty even thinking about these things but my sister may be taking advantage of me and my brother not wanting to appear greedy.
Hopefully mom will live another 20 years and spend every nickel.
We are in Missouri.