My dad's house is in horrible shape. And he doesn't see it. It's in disrepair inside and out. I've tried to help as much as I can, but it always ends up in a big argument. I used to go clean when I knew he was away from home...he wouldn't even notice. Now he's hardly ever away from home and I can't "sneak in" and clean while he's away. I've offered to clean and he says no because it gives him something to do...but then when I go over again, nothing has been cleaned. When I do clean it only last a day or two IF that! What can I do? Nobody gets along with him because he "knows it all." I'm at a breaking point and today is the day I go over to his house. My stomach is already in knots.