Recently I decided to move in with my boyfriend and his mom who is blind. He will always put her first which I respect and understand wholeheartedly. But she’s very demanding, jealous of the time we spend together and as you can imagine, in need of extra care. I never met a blind person before I met her, this is all new to me and I feel as if my boyfriend expects me to understand exactly how it is caring for someone like this. It’s hard for me to differentiate between the things she needs done for herself and the things she wants others to do for her. To me it’s pretty clear that my boyfriend is being taken advantage of & he’s used to it considering he’s been the only one around to care for her for a while now. I’m wondering if anyone has tips for caring for the blind/aging, and when do I know enough is enough as far as tasks she asks of me and my boyfriend? I love him a lot and I’m willing to learn and I’m trying my best to understand. But lately it seems a lot of arguments are over her & it always ends up being that I can leave if I don’t like it. I’ve invested a lot of time, love and money into this relationship. We’re buying a new house together, we have plans for the future. I just don’t know how to better understand what it’s like caring for her. I don’t want me or my boyfriend to be taken advantage of, but it seems even if we are being taken advantage of he doesn’t care. In turn am I supposed to not care as well? I need guidance please. I’ve been struggling with my own personal/mental problems lately which may contribute to how I feel about this situation. But how long do I try to understand before it’s time to give up? Thanks in advance.