I'm looking for a program that I can receive financial aid with my handicapped disabled spouse's care.

I have been told that since he is on a Passport Program and being a Certified HHA I no longer can be his caregiver with pay, but someone else can come in to oversee my spouse for just a few hours, when really he needs 24 hr, care, I feel that this is very unfair, I truly have a legitimite case, and I love my spouse with all my heart, I would never leave him unless I didn't have a choice, please if you can help me in any way please do so, I am so discouraged that I don't want anybody else to oversee for my spouse but yet at the same time I'm getting so burned out. Can you please helpppppppp me? Oh by the way I'm 66 he will be 61 soon, he's a double amputee.