Do you provide temporary day care?

Scrimfr, enter your zipcode in the box on the right and pick the type of care you need. If your brother in law is on Hospice, the Hospice agency will help her out and so can the county office of aging. Even the family doctor can help connect her to help.

This is not that type of organization. I suggest you start with contacting Onondaga County Aging Services and asking for places that provide respite care.

You are kind to be helping your sister find respite. That is very important to a caregiver's well-being.