I am a caregiver for a bedridden elderly relative who wears adult diapers. He has arthritis in his legs and I thought a visiting nurse might help me change him and perhaps cause less pain for him, and in general make it easier. But is if fair of me to expect a VN to do rather intimate cleaning, if you know what I mean? Do they even do that? I'd just as soon have the visiting nurse deal with the whole process. Thank you in advance for your answers.