My mother passed away a year ago and my father who has vision problems due to a stroke from 5 years ago is living alone in a 4000 sq foot farm house that sits on a 7 acre propery. He wants remain in his home which both my sister and I support. He also knows that he can't live indefinitely by himself and will need one of us to move in. She lives in an appartment in another state and I and my family live 20 minutes away and own our home. His home is the better option for us to move into as it is larger and more accomodatable. Is there any place that we can get advice and counceling on this? My sister is not in agreement of my fathers abilities and thinks he can live indefinitly by himself with the only assistance is from me instead of hiring help and refuses agreement for me and my family to move in. But she herself can not move in either.