My father is 94 and lives 10,000 kms away. He is well looked after in a good retirement home. I planned to visit him in March - but fell ill and had to cancel the flight. On the phone he suggested i was lying about my condition to avoid visiting. I told him his remarks were unacceptable and we are not currently talking. He has always been difficult and I am not sure how to proceed as he is not well. I am happy to talk on the phone or skype - but am now reluctant to visit. I pray for him every day, He is not a christian. Can you advise me.