In separate conversations with me and my sibling, my cousin has wished my uncle were dead because he is a very demanding person and has made his life and his family's life difficult while also providing for them very generously. The problem is that he is an agent in my Uncle's Advance Health Care Directive and Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care. I am primary, my cousin is second and my sibling is third. My sib and I wonder whether my cousin can really be objective in carrying out my Uncle's wishes if I can't be reached. He's like a father to us and we don't know what to do. Has anyone else dealt with this issue?